Topic about kindergarten. My daughter is 3.5 years old, and we just started sending her, but she doe…

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Topic about kindergarten. My daughter is 3.5 years old, and we just started sending her, but she doesn't follow any of the kindergarten rules at all. We're only going for two hours right now. There was physical education: all the kids were standing in a line, but she just wanders off wherever she wants around the room. She doesn't participate in group activities either; she gets up and goes to play, and doesn't care what the teacher says. Food has been okay so far, but we tried a year ago, and she refused to eat, got up to play with toys, and would have tantrums if the teacher tried to make her sit at the table. Her routine was also bad: we tried to get her to sleep, and she would kick the bed and scream until I arrived. Now it's all happening again: she doesn't listen to the teacher, doesn't care about the group's routine, and does whatever she wants. Her diagnosis is speech delay; she speaks poorly. She really wants to be around other kids and loves to play, but she doesn't want to sleep, eat, or listen to the teacher. I'm thinking of withdrawing her documents again; I don't want to torment the teacher or myself.
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Katerina
Maybe try a special needs class? There will be fewer kids and the teachers have extra training. It's important to learn to follow instructions; it's a useful skill in life.
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Gertsun Tatyana
How long has she been going to daycare?
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Oksana
Gertsun Tatyana She's been going for two hours a week. But the teacher is already starting to say that she doesn't care about anything, like she's in her own world and doesn't listen at all.
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Tatyana
At that age, there should already be some awareness… what about at home?
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Anyuta
It seems like there's something else going on besides the speech delay.
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Tamasyan Yuliya
Gertsun Tatyana You should see a good neurologist...
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Olga Antyuhova
And how does she behave at home? The same?
Of course, a week isn't a definitive indicator
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Svetlana
I'd get checked out one more time, just to be sure.
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Oksana
Olga Antyuhova No, it's not the same at home. At home, she does everything, she understands what I say and does everything I ask. But at the garden, it's like this for some reason
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Olga Antyuhova
Olga Antyuhova Interesting and, forgive me, strange. I worked in a nursery, and many kids didn't eat, but they listened and didn't leave the table on their own. Same for naps and activities. Maybe not enough time has passed; try telling her at home that she needs to listen to her caregivers.
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Oksana
We're thinking about making an appointment with a psychiatrist. Or is a neurologist better?
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Yuliya
Oh, it was like that with my son. Everyone sits at the tables doing activities, and he runs off to play with toys. Everyone goes to bed, and he walks around the bedroom singing songs 🤦😬😅 In the end, we took him to a preschool neuropsychologist for a program called "Neuronchik." They helped him develop perseverance, attention, and how to hold a pencil correctly. You should try a neuropsychologist.
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Svetlana Kovshova
to both specialists, it can't hurt
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Ella Yarmuhametova
get the baby checked. It's not normal at her age.
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Natalya
Your child needs to be checked out; this isn't normal at 3.5 years old.
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Elina
The caregiver will survive. It's a normal kid, not a trained one.
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